the death virgin project is growing

death virgin is Kristen Vermilyea's multidisciplinary art project offering diverse projects exploring mortality including a podcast (The Death Virgin Podcast), documentary film (Death Virgin), and services related to death and dying, including the Zurich Death Salon, Death Salon Workshops, and Death Doula services; all of which foster conversations about death and life through creativity and community engagement.

"Death is not the
opposite of life,
but a part of it."

― Haruki
Murakami

Explore our multidisciplinary projects centered around life and death.

Death Virgin Substack

A place for updates on all things death salon, death salon workshops, and death virgin writing.

Engaging Podcast

Join us for insightful discussions on death, life, and everything in between through our podcast.

Experience transformative storytelling through our documentary film that explores the complexities of death and dying.

Documentary Film

A new podcast exploring how to prepare for the death of a loved one.

Hi, I'm Kristen. I've never lost a close loved one, and that terrifies me.

Join me as I tackle the universal experience of death with humor, honesty, and sincere introspection.

Through personal stories, interviews, and my journey to becoming a death doula, I'll explore how we mourn and how to prepare for life's final chapter.

This podcast is for anyone curious about life, loss, and finding laughter along the way.

"Wonderful, substantial and entertaining podcast! My new fav!"

- Tilman E. - Switzerland

Rated 5 stars by listeners.

★★★★★

"I listened to your 1st podcast episode and I was thoroughly entertained!

I found you very charming, smart, witty, self-deprecating, and the stream of consciousness stuff was lovingly hilarious...

... I just wanted you to know that your podcast has a fan out here in NorCal and I look forward to listening to more episodes."

- Dan J. - California

"Love the podcast!! Keep on talking, so important!"

- Heather M. - Massachusetts

death doula* services

.*a death doula is an advocate for the dying and their families. Doulas are not medical professionals. We do not replace medical end-of-life care, such as doctors, nurses or other medical providers. For more information on what a death doula is and how we work, visit the INELDA website

I’ve spent my life collecting stories — through writing, film, photography, and conversation. As a death doula, I bring that same curiosity, empathy, and creativity to my work with people nearing the end of life and those who love them.

My approach weaves the practical with the poetic: helping you prepare, reflect, and remember with honesty and care. Whether you’re planning for your own future, supporting someone else, or tending to what remains after a loss, I offer guidance, presence, and companionship.

I am an INELDA trained Death Doula.

zurich death salon

28 October

Friedhof Forum

Aemtlerstrasse 149, Zurich

19:00 -22:00

bar and snacks available

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